Make no mistake about it, you can develop all sorts of adult friends throughout your adult life. By adult friends, I’m not talking about friends who are over the age of 18. I hope that much is obvious. Unfortunately, a lot of guys think that is the definition of adult friends. Not surprisingly, they fail to develop these types of sexual friends.
An adult friend is somebody who is into sex, but is also a friend. Imagine being able to have a good time with your buddy, traveling, enjoying new things in life, and at the end of the process having sex with that person. Wouldn’t that be awesome? In fact, if you ask most guys, nine times out of 10, that’s how they would define an ideal friendship. Obviously, they wouldn’t bang their male friends, but they definitely would love to get on top of their female friends.
Unfortunately, for the most part, their female platonic friends don’t look at them that way. This is why the whole concept of adult friends is so tempting and so appealing to a wide range of guys. We’re talking about across the board. We’re not just talking about a few guys here and there. We’re not talking about a few aberrant sleazebags and douche bags along the way. We’re talking about the typical, average, red-blooded American male.
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So if you’re looking to fuck locals, you need to redefine what an adult friend is. Most of the reason why most guys fail to find these types of friends is because they stick with the wrong definition. They define them as regular friends. That’s not how you do it.
You have to look at them as friends you cultivated from day one to be friends ‘with benefits.’ That’s how it works. You can’t just shit on all the intimacy and shared experience you have with your current friends by trying to turn them into your personal cock holsters.
